Looking for advice - Page 4

Syrah · 06-24-2008, 01:07 AM

He needs an evaluation from a mental health professional. Waiting to get treatment will only make the condition more severe, making it more difficult to treat. Once he gets evaluated I'd imagine he'd go through therapy and they will most likely prescribe some kind of medication(s).

Roxy · 06-24-2008, 01:52 AM

Get fit. Go to a gym together 2-3 nights a week. Go dance in a club at the weekends. Have lots of sex.

Assuming you don't already do all that, that is. If you already have an active relationship, how's about a holiday? Married? Go on a second honeymoon.

I'm just curious what it is you are finding hard. Does he mope around the house feeling sorry for himself? Does he often 'act' poorly? Miserable? Doom and gloom? If he's sat on his ass, get him up and push him out the door. Go do something - walks, bike rides, exercise, play fighting.

Does he lack energy, or is it all mental? Does it happen often? How does it affect you? I mean, how bad is it - mildly irritating, or emotional blackmail?

The sure way to get a guy to shape up is to go out and have an exciting time without him. Tell him all about it. Either he will man up, or he will spit his dummy out - if it's the latter, dump him.

Faabio · 06-24-2008, 02:01 AM

Yea, I'm sure she is going to take advice from you.

How old are you Roxy, 15, 16?

Roxy · 06-24-2008, 02:02 AM

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Originally Posted by Faabio

Yea, I'm sure she is going to take advice from you.

How old are you Roxy, 15, 16?

Eh...?

Faabio · 06-24-2008, 02:36 AM

Exactly

Naeca · 06-24-2008, 02:45 AM

when I was like 13 on the internet i could type like that too.. but now that im turning 19 in august i could give a fuck what people think about the maturity of my typing skills. plus, i play everquest in leet mode

Roxy · 06-24-2008, 02:46 AM

What are you, the fucking Riddler?

What are you trying to say?

The first post was a bit vague, so I was just asking some questions. I have had a similar experience with an ex. bf

Should I have just made some witty/funny remark and offered her cybor instead?

Addee · 06-24-2008, 02:49 AM

I believe he's just commenting on your past posts...and their maturity level. Probably not that one in particular. As it made a good bit of sense.

Naeca · 06-24-2008, 02:51 AM

Not me, I wasnt commenting anybody but myself. i'm a very selfish person once you get to know me

Roxy · 06-24-2008, 02:56 AM

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Originally Posted by Addee

I believe he's just commenting on your past posts...and their maturity level. Probably not that one in particular. As it made a good bit of sense.

Wait... Faabio... is pecking at me... because of the maturity level of my past posts...?

Pot. Kettle. Black, tbh.