While I would have learned something from this thread had I not already been informed of such information in other threads, i can at least say I was thoroughly amused and very entertained throughout my reading of this thread.
Thanks all :D
And yes, I /agree with
Guard-Dirge-Coercer-Defiler-Templar-Swashie/Assassin
However sometimes with our luck, coercers arent easy to come by:
Illusionist does work amazing in their place imho. As buckler spec i can get up to 97% dbl attack from Illusionist, and their 59-62 AttackSpeed [thats the minimal difference between A3 and M1 sadly]
[60% from buckler, 9% from AAs, 3% from Strongbear [if its not a very hard encounter] and then 25% from Illusionist
Also, currently been having difficulty getting enough support classes to give regen to all groups, so im fine with sacrificing the coercer to another group [i prefer dirge over coercer if i can only have one]. I'm sure if aggro is more difficult later then coercer will be preferred but dirge has some great MT buffs [although i know they hate wasting them when they could buff for DPS more

]
I've always been a big fan of avoidance/mitigation when my ex-raid leader only cared about hit points hit points hit points and never looked at mitigation or avoidance when figuring out who was MT.
And as such buckler spec has worked wonders for me, and if need be I can always switch to Tower Shield, i just look a good chunk of my dps.
But at the end of the day im having fun, so its all gravy