Keigo had IRL sex with my Wife, AB Server Drama. - Page 106

Dreana · 11-28-2007, 04:27 PM

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Originally Posted by Winterstar

The people saying that it's wrong no matter what are people who aren't very well versed in real life and/or adhere to some unattainable moral code that no one can ever live up to.

I have no agenda. I just see a bunch of people looking at this from a pure black/white perspective and not seeing the shades of grey.

Allowing yourself to be a victim does not make you well versed in real life. She was in a terrible situation, yes, but she should have gotten herself out of that situation on her own before moving on to another man. Thinking that women are poor little creatures that are easily manipulated by men just doesn't sit well with me. There's plenty of blame to go around here.

Winterstar · 11-28-2007, 04:55 PM

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Originally Posted by Legion

When it comes to "fuck someone other than your husband" or "don't fuck someone other than your husband", yeah its pretty black and white.

Its fairly simple. If you don't want to be with your husband anymore, you get the hell out. Anyone with even the most basic knowledge of psychology knows that "If you leave me I'll kill myself" is bullshit. People who are going to kill themselves will just DO it. In fact, it seems at one time he was going to try to off himself whether she stayed with him or not.

So you get out, help them get help, and THEN go fuck around.

There is no excuse for betraying your spouse. None. Innocent victims find a women's shelter or counseling. Chicks who just want an excuse to bang someone else pull what she did.

No, women who want out, and then are offered a way out, will take that out...and that's what she did.

The relationship was over, for all intents and purposes, before she even left for ~~Keigo's place~~ Keigo's MOM'S place.

Winterstar · 11-28-2007, 04:57 PM

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Originally Posted by Dreana

Allowing yourself to be a victim does not make you well versed in real life. She was in a terrible situation, yes, but she should have gotten herself out of that situation on her own before moving on to another man. Thinking that women are poor little creatures that are easily manipulated by men just doesn't sit well with me. There's plenty of blame to go around here.

I certainly don't believe that women are easily manipulated by men...however, with enough of a history of emotional abuse, it makes ANYONE, male or female, more susceptable to influence than they normally would be otherwise.

No party is innocent in this case. However, I don't believe Jen deserves even a quarter of the scorn she's receiving here.

Pryz · 11-28-2007, 05:00 PM

Women with self respect and/or half a brain don't get manipulated by this kind of bullshit

Cuz · 11-28-2007, 05:35 PM

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Originally Posted by LFG

Permission to role play is not permission to fuck.

Permission to fly off to see the man you're role play fucking is playing with fire. Oh wait...

Lunhilde · 11-28-2007, 05:49 PM

I think if my husband kept trying to commit suicide, allowed freedoms in the marriage (cyber) and even allowed me (trusted me?) to go see someone (as a friend? lets play naieve for a moment) I'd still not fuck them.

Why?

Cause divorce is expensive, and fucking makes me lose my 50% of the collective estate.

So unless she literally had nothing to lose, including dignity and self worth, she should have known better than to fly off for cheap sex, or even not-so-cheap sex. Who wouldn't know/suspect? I mean.. wtf. She had to have had it premeditated when she asked Mike if she could go (or told him she was). If not she is lying to herself.

No. I am a woman and I blame her far more than she deserves for acting like a stereotypical airheaded useless piece of ass that goes wherever the wind blows instead of standing up for her own vows and promises that she made, her own self dignity.

He set himself on fire? As far as I am concerned, she set them both on fire, AND she waved the match at her hubby on coming home again when she sat back down at the PC and typed '/t Keio hey hon ' or whatever her equivalent is. If you're going to use a man as revenge and cheap fuck, use him as revenge and a cheap fuck. dont be a fucking coward. period.

Cuz · 11-28-2007, 05:57 PM

It's admirable that you're trying to defend him. After all we wouldn't him to get all depressed and try to kill himself with his wifes ladybic. Blades still in the razor of course.

HaloChaos · 11-28-2007, 06:14 PM

I'd lite the ladybic on fire first. It has to burn.

Let me try to steer things a bit here. I kept telling her that she needed to go, at various times throughout the relationship. Some of it was apart of me being depressed, emo, or whatever the fuck you wanna call it. Stuff like "I'm not good enought for you, so you should just go, etc." And when she fell in love with Keigo, it became more of a "He's better then I am what do you need me for etc." kinda thing. No one likes being told they aren't wanted. I may be angry that it happened, and a bit suprised cause I didn't think she would, but hell if anyone had this shit comming its me.

The trip was for her to find out if she could like this guy on the real or not, because as far as I was concerned, nothing I was doing interested her anyway and she was enamored with the guy, maybe she should go see him and maybe realize that he isn't worth it, or realize that he is worth it and tell me straight up that she was leaving, which would of been ok. Not saying this was an intelligent thing to do, clearly it was effing retarded. But I did it. Just clarifying what it was that I did. Continue tearing this one apart, I diserve it for being a dumbass.

Anyway, 106 pages. Thats alot of an attention, more then any attention whore could ever ask for. Shouldn't I be happy, or something? Cause attention is the only thing I want, right? Hell I had attention sitting right next to me, and thanks to my actions to get attention, I don't have that attention anymore. I have won.
I reign supreme, or some shit.

Thaya · 11-28-2007, 06:30 PM

Just read the first page.

Whoa! You're better off without people like that imo.

sloppy · 11-28-2007, 07:06 PM

i think shintou keigo and the whore wife are all stupid fucks. that is all