Keigo had IRL sex with my Wife, AB Server Drama. - Page 14

Laodaron · 11-12-2007, 06:12 PM

I'd hit it. Damn, I been on the wrong server this whole time.

Ravanos · 11-12-2007, 06:14 PM

one thing i have to know is .... did he put on his robe and wizard hat?

Meta · 11-12-2007, 06:15 PM

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Originally Posted by Ravanos

one thing i have to know is .... did he put on his robe and wizard hat?

bwahahahaa

mathalsolo · 11-12-2007, 06:15 PM

Are those pics really her?

Talonis · 11-12-2007, 06:19 PM

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Originally Posted by HaloChaos

This may lose stars for this or whatever, or I may be called a bitch or whatever..

But.. shes not fat. Shes not ugly. She made a very bad choice under less then idea circumstances. Syriean is right in that I haven't been the perfect husband.

My sucicide attemps have not done her emotions well. The fact that I would kill myself and leave her cut her very deep. Also, their is the cybering/adult roleplay that I engaged in, behind her back.

I believe that she is very .. very confused right now, and when she had sex with him.

He .. diserves no sympathy and will get none from me. I may hate him to the grave, he is lucky that I have some Christanity still in me that I still see him as a Human Being, but I don't see him as much more then that. He has his rights as this is America and I will not violate those rights. Thats the best insult I guess I can lob at him, Jake, you are hardly a human being to me now. Eat a dick, *****.

And can we please not put up pictures of her IRL :/.. I mean do what you want Just.. damn. Damn man..

So you seem to be defending her actions now because of your past actions, but you motherfuck the dude that hit it? Yeah, you are mental then. If you think her 'confusion' warrants sympathy and forgiveness, why bitch about the identity of the dick she sat on to give you what you feel you had coming to you? I think you are the one that is confused.

MysidiaDrakkenbane · 11-12-2007, 06:20 PM

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Originally Posted by Rippy The Razor

When a man finds out his wife is cheating he can

A) End the marriage in a quiet and dignified manor. Maintain a civilized relationship with your X when you have to deal with them.

B) Do 20 years to life if he doesn't have obscene amounts of money to spend on a good team of lawyers.

C) Scorch the earth. Destroy everything there is, ever was, and will be. End all contact and never talk to each other again. This is a really really bad option if you have kids, not as bad as option B, but it's still not an option. Be a man, suck it up, and go with option A for the kids sake.

D) Work it out. Before you consider this option ask the question "can you really work things out" If you can, you probably should. If you can't live with or without her, then you can't live with her. If you can't get past the affair in your own heart option D is just a waste of your time and will probably just cause alcohol related liver damage

Rippy the Razor says: Unless you've actually gone through a failed marriage, or was able to keep one together for over 10 years the peanut gallery should just shut the fuck up. With all due respect if you have not gone through at least 5 years of marriage &/or a divorce you don't know shit. But when do ignorant people on eq2flames ever know when to stfu?

I am totally late on this bandwagon, but the above poster couldn't be any more spot on.

Infidelity can be worked through, but BOTH parties have to work at it. The cheated has to learn to let go and the cheater has to learn patience and regain trust.

You have some soul searching to do, man, and I don't envy you for it. Decide if there is anything left to salvage and if there is, work on it. If there isn't, cut her loose. Life is too short to walk around life with loose ends and live unhappy.

Have I personally been there? In my marriage? No. However, I watched my parents go through it and I can tell you that you can work through it if both parties want it. My parents have been married for 29 years (today, actually) and they've been through their fair share of battles.

Good luck on whatever you decide.

mathalsolo · 11-12-2007, 06:20 PM

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Originally Posted by Talonis

So you seem to be defending her actions now because of your past actions, but you motherfuck the dude that hit it? Yeah, you are mental then. If you think her 'confusion' warrants sympathy and forgiveness, why bitch about the identity of the dick she sat on to give you what you feel you had coming to you? I think you are the one that is confused.

Because he loves his wife, not the dick she 'sat on'. Love makes us do crazy things.

Ravanos · 11-12-2007, 06:32 PM

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Originally Posted by HaloChaos

This may lose stars for this or whatever, or I may be called a bitch or whatever..

But.. shes not fat. Shes not ugly. She made a very bad choice under less then idea circumstances. Syriean is right in that I haven't been the perfect husband.

My sucicide attemps have not done her emotions well. The fact that I would kill myself and leave her cut her very deep. Also, their is the cybering/adult roleplay that I engaged in, behind her back.

I believe that she is very .. very confused right now, and when she had sex with him.

He .. diserves no sympathy and will get none from me. I may hate him to the grave, he is lucky that I have some Christanity still in me that I still see him as a Human Being, but I don't see him as much more then that. He has his rights as this is America and I will not violate those rights. Thats the best insult I guess I can lob at him, Jake, you are hardly a human being to me now. Eat a dick, *****.

And can we please not put up pictures of her IRL :/.. I mean do what you want Just.. damn. Damn man..

well my question would be did she know about your issues before she got involved with ya? if she did then she should have know that thoughts of suicide and even attempts come with the illness. if she was really committed to you then she would have stuck with you and been there for YOU in your time of need ... not sitting on someone elses dick.

the Cybering is just a nonsense justification, its not a great move but come on it doesnt warrent her physically cheating maybe being upset and not talking to you for a while but cheating?

You know part of depression is blaming yourself for the actions of others. this is not YOUR fault this is on her completely. You're not an angel in the least but who is? what you did does not justify for her to cheat. if she couldnt handle it she should have said so.

Miroh · 11-12-2007, 06:38 PM

I'm not one to advocate violence but if you fuck with the Two things that are important to me, its time to pay your dues. One being my money, Two being my happiness. Touch those two if you want....just send the doctor bill to me when you can figure out how to write again.

Kyrsten · 11-12-2007, 06:39 PM

14 pages and the wife and/or Keigo hasn't posted? booo