Keigo had IRL sex with my Wife, AB Server Drama. - Page 45

On_your_knees · 11-13-2007, 10:19 AM

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Originally Posted by Pryz

A person who lights themselves on fire is an emo pussy, a person who lights another person on fire is a badass.

The decision is yours Halochaos

LMFAO /agree

Oaklin · 11-13-2007, 10:57 AM

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Originally Posted by Typhonis

Legitimate or not. If they had kids, what would you do? what would any of us do?

Probably say "oh thats too bad" and be on with our lives and never give it a second thought. That may not be you, but I can gurantee that is the majority of the population.

Personally I wouldnt bring up my personal bullshit in an open forum. But hey thats just me. Last thing I want is a bunch of sympathy from strangers Ive never met.

I shudder at the thought of the mere possibility of her pro-creating.

Especially considering the divorce rate is like 8/10 couples. YAY to the faithful, golddigging, cockwhores!!!!!! What has this world come to??

Oaklin · 11-13-2007, 10:59 AM

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Originally Posted by Rippy The Razor

I should probably take a chill pill and leave this thread. Even after 6 years divorce is a bitter and hate filled subject for me. There are right and a wrong way to do things. Anything involving a person's divorce and eq2 flames is just the wrong way to do things. This thread is no longer about exposing a cheating wife and a cheating friend to the world. Even if it was it wouldn't help. This thread is about cheap entertainment giving eq2 flames plenty of hits for it's hit count making the sight look better to sell more addspace at someone else's expence. The more someone dwells on a divorce, or fights over it scorching the earth the worse it makes it for everybody including themself. Encouraging the OP is just egging him on to continue into self destructive behavoir. This thread is all about cheap entertainment watching someone else's real life go into a wreck and laughing at it. It's not just slowing down to look at a car wreck, it's gonig to pick up all your friends and drive back to the wreck to take pictures of the bodies and laugh. Most people from Venekor and Nagafen know I have a healthy sence of scheadenfreude, but this is going to far for me.

And yes, you should probably just STFU..... your use of power to type words is a waste here...

Oaklin · 11-13-2007, 11:02 AM

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Originally Posted by LFG

In every major RL drama thread we've had on this site, when it becomes obvious a person or two is probably going to have to leave the game permanently based on the shame and humiliation caused by the thread, some voice of reason and morality always steps up and proclaims, "Ward, I think you're being too hard on the Beaver, this has gone too far."

I forget who it was during the Lilyanna thread, but in this thread, it's you, Rippy.

There is nothing wrong with finding this thread distasteful, beyond the bounds of human decency, and choosing to walk away from it. We each get different things out of this site and threads like this. What I get is food for my fascination with extreme and bizarre real life behavior. Threads like this help me see the boundaries in life and my place in the world.

I think the OP did a great service to others like me by posting this. Hopefully this thread, like the Lilyanna thread before it, will help at least one person not feel the pain and make the same mistakes described by the OP. Hopefully, it will finally get through to someone, somewhere that extramarital cyber and online romance will neither improve a marriage nor leave anyone with anything but hollow feelings and cancelled EQ2 subscriptions.

well said.

Widem · 11-13-2007, 11:14 AM

when these threads pop up i seriously dig through papers for days looking for murder suicides...if you decide to do it please post that you did.

yes im sick, yes im twisted, yes peoples pain gives me complete and utter satisfaction.

MysidiaDrakkenbane · 11-13-2007, 11:23 AM

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Originally Posted by Draugluin

His crippling mental disorder? Please! If you have a mental disorder that you can not get under control and makes you abuse the person you claim to love then you shouldn't be married. he says he is taking his meds now. Well why the hell wasn't he taking them when he lit his ass on fire. This isnt some new thing that just popped up in his life. he has been like this for years. He has known for years that he had problems. He talked to people about it. You think depression is what made him come here and post ? His whole tone in this thread has been I was bad, but they were worse. Hate them. Burn them.He was just as much at fault as they were. This whole thread of his is an attempt to paint himself as the victim. If he truly believed that his "failures in conduct" were in any way responsible for what happened, or that he was in anyway at fault he wouldnt be on here airing his dirty laundry, creating drama, and entertaining the masses.

He says he didnt want a divorce. but the words from one of the other parties in this mess say she wanted a divorce and he knew she wanted a divorce. Seems to me when one person in a marriage says I want a divorce then things are pretty much over. Besides that he gave her permission to go stay with the other guy knowing that she wanted out of the marriage. What the hell did he think was going to happen.

As far as dealing with a crippling mental issue. Yes I have. I was married for 17 years to a woman who was just as self destructive and just as abusive as Shintou. The difference was we had children and there was no way I was risking having some idiot judge give her custody and putting my children in jeapardy. So I had to wait 17 years till they could choose where they got to live before I could tell her I wanted a divorce.

Lemme ask you something, ever have one personally? (Mental disorder) Ever wake up in the morning and not completely know why you are sweeping from one end of the emotional pendulum to the other? And hey, I hate to break this to you, but not all meds work.

It’s a constant struggle between playing guinea pig with trying to find the right combinations of pills that work and struggling to just keep your sanity while you wait for this miracle cure. There isn’t a one pill that is the be all to end all for depression because everyone’s body is different and reacts to medications differently. People spend hundreds of hours at therapists and hundreds of dollars to find the right cocktail that works for them.

But you supposedly have been through this with your ex spouse, so you should know. It’s really REALLY hard to treat someone “decent” if you can’t even get your own fucking emotions in check. And if this wife did know what she was getting into, the words “For better or worse” aren’t there to make it sound pretty.

This guy obviously has gone through the gauntlet as far as emotional turmoil. And whether or not he actually rolled out the red carpet and gave her Carte Blanche doesn’t fucking matter…at ALL. If you are having tendencies to cheat, leave. Why drag out the inevitable? SHE could have started the divorce process and moved out to separate for a year to plead No Contest on her divorce papers. If she truly TRULY wanted out, there are ways of doing it, rather than just dragging it on causing more emotional bullshit that really shouldn’t have happened in the first place.

Cheating was a decision that she made, period. She decided to take her “roleplaying” and move it to the next level. That was a decision. So yeah, I’m going to toss the bullshit flag and call ‘em where I see ‘em.

She was treated horribly? She wanted to get out of the relationship? She “tried” to get a divorce? … you don’t try that, btw. You either go through it with it or you don’t. People who really want to get a divorce find a fucking way and DO IT. Shit or get off the fucking pot and if you decide to stick around, fix your fucking mess and take responsibility for your own actions. She fucked up. Period.

Laodaron · 11-13-2007, 11:24 AM

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Originally Posted by Lovelace

It's been so many pages now I don't even remember who said we weren't gonna lose sleep over this, but fuck if its not almost 6am... and I just now got caught up.

Oh, and props to Laodaron for being the only person who can correctly spell wildebeest.

Mozilla Firefox ftw.

I knew it anyway, but I always have a backup plan.

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Originally Posted by Widem

when these threads pop up i seriously dig through papers for days looking for murder suicides...if you decide to do it please post that you did.

yes im sick, yes im twisted, yes peoples pain gives me complete and utter satisfaction.

Widem, you are NOT alone. I love seeing that so many people's lives are worse off than my own. It makes me incredibly happy.

sshhhhhh · 11-13-2007, 11:29 AM

bump!? =)

heh heh

aduros · 11-13-2007, 11:30 AM

I wonder if this guy lives in San Diego, could explain alot about what happened a few weeks ago...

LFG · 11-13-2007, 11:37 AM

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Originally Posted by MysidiaDrakkenbane

Cheating was a decision that she made, period. She decided to take her “roleplaying” and move it to the next level. That was a decision. So yeah, I’m going to toss the bullshit flag and call ‘em where I see ‘em.

She was treated horribly? She wanted to get out of the relationship? She “tried” to get a divorce? … you don’t try that, btw. You either go through it with it or you don’t. People who really want to get a divorce find a fucking way and DO IT. Shit or get off the fucking pot and if you decide to stick around, fix your fucking mess and take responsibility for your own actions. She fucked up. Period.

Well stated, I agree completely. She wanted to fuck the other guy while in a marital relationship, and she did. Thinking he gave her "permission" is rationalizing on a retarded scale.

I feel sorry for the guy, in his own way, he is trying to take some responsibility for this. I think he was just trying to make her happy. But he didn't fuck anyone, she did.