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Originally Posted by Rippy The Razor
When a man finds out his wife is cheating he can
A) End the marriage in a quiet and dignified manor. Maintain a civilized relationship with your X when you have to deal with them.
B) Do 20 years to life if he doesn't have obscene amounts of money to spend on a good team of lawyers.
C) Scorch the earth. Destroy everything there is, ever was, and will be. End all contact and never talk to each other again. This is a really really bad option if you have kids, not as bad as option B, but it's still not an option. Be a man, suck it up, and go with option A for the kids sake.
D) Work it out. Before you consider this option ask the question "can you really work things out" If you can, you probably should. If you can't live with or without her, then you can't live with her. If you can't get past the affair in your own heart option D is just a waste of your time and will probably just cause alcohol related liver damage
Rippy the Razor says: Unless you've actually gone through a failed marriage, or was able to keep one together for over 10 years the peanut gallery should just shut the fuck up. With all due respect if you have not gone through at least 5 years of marriage &/or a divorce you don't know shit. But when do ignorant people on eq2flames ever know when to stfu?
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Originally Posted by Nurta
Talking in 3rd person about yourself = retard of the board. The jackass OP posted his life story and all kinds of crap about his wife and this piece of shit who slept with his wife. He's going to get opinions; some how I do not think he really gives a shit how many years people have been married that's on par with speaking in 3rd person about yourself.
Amazingly enough "Mr. barney-like personality" a few people who have posted in this thread have been in fact married and divorced; hopefully your world doesn't crash down around you and you have to resort to a song about your personality!
Again, dump the bitch and move on. In the future if you don't want your significant other to fool around don't authorize it, don't let her participate in some sick twisted online circle-jerk-cyber circle either. Move on, life is too short to dwell over a person. There are many fish in the sea.
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That's talking in 3rd person to other people, and it's just matching my sig.
That wasn't directed at you, or anybody specific. This is a somewhat serious topic.
Exhibit A the 1st post after mine
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Originally Posted by Leorra
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I'm sorry, was it wrong of me to tell members of the peanut gallery who have never been married to STFU.
You guys are so focused on the man who fucked his wife you have lost sight. If a wife's going to cheat, it's not because of the guy. Women can get dick with zero effort if they want it. If one guy doesn't fuck her someone else with low moral standards will. Many internet dating services have entire sections dedicated to married looking to cheat. I'm not saying that it's ok or that he's not scum, It's not the OP's fault his wife cheated on him, but women who are happy in their marriage don't cheat. I'm saying it happened because of underlying problems with the relationship.
Time to be lame and talk in 3rd person again.
Rippy the Razor says: Why is it the guy with the talking razor blade giving suicide directions is the only person asking if kids are involved?