Keigo had IRL sex with my Wife, AB Server Drama.

HaloChaos · 11-12-2007, 01:41 PM

Call this a personal attack if you want, but any man who has sex, REAL sex with another man's wife and then turns around and says that the husband is causing drama because he starts to verbally shove his foot up Keigo's narrow ass diserves to be personally attacked.

Trust this man at your own risk. That is all.

This is me, playing as Saisha which yo uall should know is Kai/Jenny alt. Kai/Jenny is for now still my wife. For now.

My ingame name is Shintou. My real name, well you get to know me as Mike.

Here is a screenshot of me playing Saisha, my wifes alt proving what he did.

HaloChaos · 11-12-2007, 01:43 PM

Heres where he attempts to defend himself:

So by now, folks have probably come to realize or hear about this one way or another. Rather than try to gather the attention of everyone on the server for a pity contest, I will tell folks that need to know the information, in its entirety, rather than some sob story from one angle.

First, a few things about Mike(Shintou) before I met Jen. He's never been emotionally stable. He isn't on medication, even though he was recently prescribed some while being in the army (twice). He's threatened suicide multiple times with no real intention (solely looking for attention), has gone behind Jen's back -plenty- of times in regards to online women and RP relationships. This isn't meant to deface Mike as he's trying so desperately to do so to me, but to give an idea of the mindset of the wife that's had to go through all this, on top of very extreme verbal abuse.
Jen (Saisha) and I have been friends for years. Met online in an older roleplaying guild. Some things happened that caused them to switch servers, but we had stayed in contact through AOL. Over time, they both came back. Jen to a guild with a bunch of people that had left the old one she led, and Mike elsewhere.

Over time, she and I started getting close, as did the characters during a time which we both still avidly RP'ed. Mike had known about what was going on most of the time, and this is where that funny line comes in between RP and RL, that grey area. Some will agree with it, some won't, however, her intentions with me at that point were nothing in an RL light. Shin continued to more or less do his thing in another RP atmosphere with other people much the same way.
As time passed, Jen started talking and confiding with me about some of the things going on her marriage. Most of which was mentioned above, a lot of it being that Mike didn't seem to happy. It's no secret, even to him, that Mike is immensely selfish. He's admitted it plenty of times. But the marriage was overall not going well because it was growing stagnant. Not really going out and doing anything, pretty much the same day in and out.

By this point, I recommended they try counseling, which they had done. Mike was prescribed pills later on which he did not take, even when under threat that his marriage could depend on it. He does have a mental disorder, of which, I'm not certain of the name, but it's very much real, and it's very much why he's reacting as he is. It's characterized by extreme mood swings, like sudden shifts from just fine to very sullen and depressed, to extremely vengeful and vehoment toward people.
So, as time passed, Mike started treating her more and more, effectively, like shit. He didn't and wouldn't change or put effort into the relationship, so eventually, Jen started looking into divorce options. She and Mike had agreed after a trip in which the sole purpose was to give them time to talk out their relationship and instead he spent most of the vacation chatting up various people online, that a divorce would be good. Mike had also known about me, by this point, and we had indeed started to fall for one another. He was told, and agreed as well, that it would not cause problems, and this was an extremely touchy issue once Shin got guilded with Soulforged with Jen and I.

So, how did this all come to pass yesterday? To be honest, I'm not sure. Mike had agreed that it was alright and wouldn't cause drama in the guild (Which he has) or for either Jen or myself (Which is currently doing). He knew Jen and I were very much wanting something together, because, as stated above, he is divorcing. What had happened, for some odd reason, is he logged into Jen's computer and looked over her logs and then started talking to me, as Saisha. Not much was said aside from the screenshot he's been posting up all over the place, for what reason, I'm not sure either. Mike has known, since anything ever became of Jen and I, of the situation, and he has agreed verbally to it.
So, there's the story in its entirety. Did Jen come visit and did I sleep with her? Yes. Were they divorcing at the time? Yes. Did Mike know? Yes. While I'm not entirely proud of not waiting, I am, however, going to come completely clean with all of this in a more neutral light which Shin isn't bothering to paint.

However, if we're throwing out opinions, I'll go ahead and post mine. Shintou has been nothing but babied for most of his life. He was an only child, and spoiled rotten, admittedly, by his parents. His mother has a very similar, if not identical mental illness, that keeps her far, far away from society. So, it was probably my stupidity that landed Shintou in the guild in the first place. I should've known better that Mike would react much worse than he said he would.
However, when you verbally abuse your wife, threaten suicide -multiple- times with no real intention, then spout off to the entire world about how I'm wrong when he's gone plenty of times behind her back? He actually called me right after the short talk, mostly just to scream at me, then hang up. Which he then started to yell at the guild about, and today, aired his laundry in the public channels.

He doesn't want to talk, folks. He doesn't want anything good for his wife...at all. How Shin can honestly think someone would want to stay with someone capable of shit like this, I'm not entirely sure. He wants attention. And I'm sure some people will gladly give it to him in the form of pity, which is exactly what he's used to manipulating. I'll admit, he's very good at seeming the victim or trying to get pity from a situation that he created. But I've seen it...too many times.
So, that's that. If this is going to be an issue for anyone, by all means, I do understand. However, I don't really see why any of this has to interfere with raiding much at all. Shin can actually be sued right now for what he's doing. But that's the story, of which I'm sure Shin will try to show in a different light or just point out how he was wronged over and over if asked. *shrug* It's up to you what you want to believe.

If you want to talk to him, by all means, feel free. I don't hate the guy. He -needs- meds he's not on. But I don't plan to every say as a guild you can't talk to someone.

So, there's the story. I know I'm not innocent by any means, no party is. Just giving folks a little to think over and sort've realize it's more than just what he's claiming. There's a background of around 6-7 years of a relationship between Jen and he before anything happened.

HaloChaos · 11-12-2007, 01:57 PM

I have not edited his post above because I believe that he can voice his opinon all he wants.

What I will not have is people talking smack behind hidden forums and locked doors.
Shintou rips that bs apart, and explains even deeper:

First, a few things about Mike(Shintou) before I met Jen. He's never been emotionally stable.

Doctors. Army Doctors have perscribed me with Dystemia. Its a long runing depression, where you well..lack happyness and you go from being kinda "eh" to being sucidial. I have had a hard time being content with my life for a very long time (till recently.) Anyway moving forward..

He isn't on medication, even though he was recently prescribed some while being in the army (twice).

I am on medication. Its clear for me and my wife to see. I do not know why he believes I am not. I take Lithium (75 mg) and EffeXor (Effexor, it effects your feelings haha). Lithium is the only drug known to reduce the presentages of sucidies in people.

He's threatened suicide multiple times with no real intention (solely looking for attention),

This is a statement that enrages me like no other. Can sucidide be a cry for attention? Yes, it can. Will I claim that part of it may of been that? Maybe. Sure. Its a weak thing to do on my part and I am ashamed of my many attempts. But damn you how dare you say that I had no real intention. I LIT MYSELF ON FIRE ONCE. I have been admitted toa mental ward at Walter Reed for a week after my last attempt back in July. On our annerversity no less, I'm such a scumbag.
I had every intention of leaving this world every single time I did it. I do not need to try to kill myself to get attention from my wife. I need to treat her better to get attention from my wife so she isn't screwing losers like you. Anyway lets continue.

as gone behind Jen's back -plenty- of times in regards to online women and RP relationships.

Shintou had sex with girls. Adult Roleplay. "Cybering" I consider cyber no worse then writing a dirty book with another person. I will leave this up to you all to decide if this is wrong or right of me. I believe that the only wrong of it is the going behind her back part of that. It was the only way I could engage in such RP. Its no different then writing a dirty book with another, its not adultry.

This isn't meant to deface Mike as he's trying so desperately to do so to me, but to give an idea of the mindset of the wife that's had to go through all this, on top of very extreme verbal abuse.

Not meant to deface me eh? Come on down into the mud and get off your high roaded horse. This is a weak attempt to make it appear that you aren't dirty when we know you are. Even if I give you that, if I throw a knife at you and it kills you, I can't say "well I didnt mean for it to kill him". You know what saying such things will do to me, you had the choice of not say them and no one would understand my wife's feelings, or say them and deface me. Man up, bitch. And get a job.
I guess the Verbal abuse is when I tell her to leave, or if I'm sure that I love her. Honestly, I do tear her up every so often, and you know, I could blame it on my condition but I'm not. I am a very hurtful person when I get hurt. When I feel wronged. Thats why I'm doing this to Keigo/Jake now, because I FEEL WRONGED and I will not rest until the world knows who and what you are. Anyway carrying on.

Jen (Saisha) and I have been friends for years. Met online in an older roleplaying guild. Some things happened that caused them to switch servers, but we had stayed in contact through AOL. Over time, they both came back. Jen to a guild with a bunch of people that had left the old one she led, and Mike elsewhere.

Saisha = Kailena from DoD. Jake/Keigo was also in DoD as you all remember. "Older roleplaying guild = Disciples of Darkness". The things that happened to cause us to switch servers can be summed up in one name. Zelraggen. Thats some other dirty laundry that airing right now would only hurt her, and cause Keigo no further disfacement. So I'm not going to go there. Kai came back from Venekor, the server we went to where we built a guild that I lead now, Firiona Vie's Champions. Kai came back and joined Fallen. Keigo was there too. I did not come back until maybe like a year or so after she did. When I did I was guildless for the longest time.. then I joined House Rea'Morda.

Over time, she and I started getting close, as did the characters during a time which we both still avidly RP'ed. Mike had known about what was going on most of the time, and this is where that funny line comes in between RP and RL, that grey area. Some will agree with it, some won't, however, her intentions with me at that point were nothing in an RL light. Shin continued to more or less do his thing in another RP atmosphere with other people much the same way.

Come on. I had only known that you and her were friends. I did not find out that the two of you were in love until at least June. I knew you were having Adult Roleplay. I only cause an issue about it because she said she wouldn't. Even now however, you two are free to have adult roleplay as you please, as you have been doing.

I have never ever fallen in love with anyone but my wife. So its not much the same way. Don't get it twisted, you are the one who cannot seperate RP and IC.

As time passed, Jen started talking and confiding with me about some of the things going on her marriage. Most of which was mentioned above, a lot of it being that Mike didn't seem to happy. It's no secret, even to him, that Mike is immensely selfish. He's admitted it plenty of times. But the marriage was overall not going well because it was growing stagnant. Not really going out and doing anything, pretty much the same day in and out.

Nice Jab, I'll take the punch. Yep, nothing I can really say about this one.

By this point, I recommended they try counseling, which they had done. Mike was prescribed pills later on which he did not take, even when under threat that his marriage could depend on it.
I went to Florida for my job and ran out of pills. I tried to get some on my return but could not because I need a Doctors say so to get a refill.
He does have a mental disorder, of which, I'm not certain of the name, but it's very much real, and it's very much why he's reacting as he is. It's characterized by extreme mood swings, like sudden shifts from just fine to very sullen and depressed, to extremely vengeful and vehoment toward people.

What Keigo is describing is what my Mother has. Its Manic Depressive Disorder. I do not believe I have this, and the Doctors (You know, those folks with degrees) agree that what I have is the disorder described above. Keigo, you been to medical school yet? No you are in your mom's basement (and uppercut for your jab there). You cannot diagnose me, and honestly neither can my wife, just because you read something on Wikipedia. And weither my problems are effecting my decision making at this point.. no. Its the fact that you had sex with my wife thats effecting my decision making. You cannot tell me that that would not make ANYONE EXTREMELY VENGEFUL AND VEHOMENT TOWARD PEOPLE? And I tell you what, right now I'm EXTREMELY VENGEFUL AGAINST ONLY YOU.

So, as time passed, Mike started treating her more and more, effectively, like shit. He didn't and wouldn't change or put effort into the relationship, so eventually, Jen started looking into divorce options. She and Mike had agreed after a trip in which the sole purpose was to give them time to talk out their relationship and instead he spent most of the vacation chatting up various people online, that a divorce would be good. Mike had also known about me, by this point, and we had indeed started to fall for one another. He was told, and agreed as well, that it would not cause problems, and this was an extremely touchy issue once Shin got guilded with Soulforged with Jen and I.

He's right. I guess. I tried to change, but .. I'm not very out going. I tried to talk to her more. I failed to take her out to movies and everything espically since I got back to the hospital. This is where I take the hit for being a bad husband, and I'll take that blow. If I wasn't a bad husband she wouldn't be fooling around with a broke ass boy like you.

Like I said, I found out that they were in love sometime before my most recent sucidide attempt back in July. (Found out in June). I tried to drink some bleach with the medication I had left, with some pinesol in there. Wife came down and I don't know, I just.. lost it. She saved my life that day I'm sure of it, but I have not done too much to show how greatful I am I suppose. Anyway, I knew they were in love. I also knew that their was nothing I could do about it. How can I stop her from loving Keigo, who clearly was doing a better of of husbandingly then myself? Thats for you to answer, but I guess I'll take the emo route and say I was a pretty bad husband.

Jen was not a happy woman being around me. I noticed and felt like she was only happy with Jake. I kept telling her that maybe she needed to go see what she wanted. She got tired of me saying it and she went. I was a bit disapointed, but I accepted it (It was my idea anyway). I asked her if they would have sex and she said it was "None of my Business" as she claims to have said. I seem to remember her telling me that they would be going "as friends" and that was my understanding of the trip. This Trip is when she had sex with him.
Soulforged? Before I knew Keigo/Jake had sex with my wife, I had no problem with joining. I wanted to be in the same guild with my wife for once, and I figured it would be a good idea. I enjoyed my time in Soulforged. I did my best to remain drama free, but Keigo is nothing but drama so.. this is how it ended up. If Keigo had not had sex with my wife, I'd still be in Soulforged, fine with everything.

So, how did this all come to pass yesterday? To be honest, I'm not sure. Mike had agreed that it was alright and wouldn't cause drama in the guild (Which he has) or for either Jen or myself (Which is currently doing).

That shit is null and void the moment you put your cock into her. I made that agreement under the belief that no sex took place. Had I known you had sex with her, I would of NEVER joined Soulforged. I'm ok with cyber. I can tolerate you two being close friends. I can understand you two loving eachother. I will never accept you having sex with her.

He knew Jen and I were very much wanting something together, because, as stated above, he is divorcing.

I've told her multiple times recently that I did not want a divorse, well till this shit happened. We're trying to work it out currently and you making posts like this isn't helping. How about trying some shutting the fuck up, Jake?

What had happened, for some odd reason, is he logged into Jen's computer and looked over her logs and then started talking to me, as Saisha.

I found a word document of one of your fights, where it explains that you had sex with her, and you planned to move to Sioux Falls? (wtf are you thinking?). I talked to you as Saisha to set up the phone call, to make you know that you screwed up and to ensure that you could not wiggle your way out of it.

Not much was said aside from the screenshot he's been posting up all over the place, for what reason, I'm not sure either. Mike has known, since anything ever became of Jen and I, of the situation, and he has agreed verbally to it.

That screenshot was posted at maybe.. Soulfroged boards, EQ2 Town Crier, Fallen boards, and here at EQdueceFlames. Two of them took them down.

Mike did not know shit about sex, and I don't know if you do not realize this or what. I knew you were in love and that you were close. Sex is another ballgame bro, and if you do not realize this then.. you have no idea what you have done. Sure, I've been a bad husband.

However, if we're throwing out opinions, I'll go ahead and post mine.

Hidden away from everyone and only around your supporters. Yeah way to put yourself out there Keigo. Don't worry, I fixed that for you, you are out there now dog.

Shintou has been nothing but babied for most of his life. He was an only child, and spoiled rotten, admittedly, by his parents.

We'll get to my mom in a second. I was an only child till the age of 6-7. My dad remarried and I got a brother about the same age. Then my step mom gave my dad 2 more kids. And yes, I was spoiled rotten, why? Because my dad COULD DO IT. Instead of becomming like the rest of the garbage around him, he rose up to middle class status. I grew up in the Ghetto of Ghet.. okay it wasn't that bad, but most of my friends were poor. I wasn't. I got a Super Nintendo for my BDay. I had a hot meal every day. I never had to worry about money. I did get jacked a couple of times. Someone stole my bike, but thats neither here or there. I'll say I was spoiled, but not rotten. Jeez.

His mother has a very similar, if not identical mental illness, that keeps her far, far away from society.

My mom has Manic Depressive disorder. See above.

So, it was probably my stupidity that landed Shintou in the guild in the first place. I should've known better that Mike would react much worse than he said he would.

Yes, you did fuck up. You should of never let me in that guild after you had sex with my wife. What the fuck did you think would happen?! How dare you even believe and pretend to say you understand why I'm mad. I HATE you. You think I would want to be in the same guild with the man who has had sex with my wife when I haven't for a good 6-7 months? Yeah I'm jealous. I HATE you. You need to have more GD sence then that.
Thanks for the Lucanic Kama, bitch. Its Soulfire now BTW.

However, when you verbally abuse your wife, threaten suicide -multiple- times with no real intention, then spout off to the entire world about how I'm wrong when he's gone plenty of times behind her back? He actually called me right after the short talk, mostly just to scream at me, then hang up. Which he then started to yell at the guild about, and today, aired his laundry in the public channels.

Verbal Abuse.. alright I can give you that, see above. Sucidide with no real intention, you are a real piece of work to pretend you knowwhat goes on in my head. and yes. YOU ARE WRONG !!!! You have wronged ALOT of people in this way, and alot of them chose to be silent.
I may be alot of things, but I am also PoShintou. I dont do quiet on line. You do me dirty like this all of the internets will know the truth.
I called you right after I was done pretending to be Saisha, in the screenshot next to this thread. YOU hung up on me so I took it to guildchat.
And yes, I'm airing my dirty laundry. I know I'm dancing with getting banned from EQ2. I know you got "Lawyers", but I don't care. I'm not going down like a bitch, not to you. I'm PoShintou, the name is Mike.

He doesn't want to talk, folks.

Oh, I'm talking. I don't want to talk to scum bags like you. This post proves what you are even more so.

He doesn't want anything good for his wife...at all.

I told her to leave, and I meant it.. multiple times. She chooses to stay and she wants to work things out with me, unless shes lying to me and you guys are secretly cooking up something awesome. I was in a better mood this morning till I heard bout this bullshit you were talking.

How Shin can honestly think someone would want to stay with someone capable of shit like this, I'm not entirely sure. He wants attention. And I'm sure some people will gladly give it to him in the form of pity, which is exactly what he's used to manipulating. I'll admit, he's very good at seeming the victim or trying to get pity from a situation that he created. But I've seen it...too many times.

I think I'm the first one to ever do this, but I'm going to kill this sentiment.
You fuckers make fun of us so called emo people..
/slash wrists /blog, right? Well I'm blogging.
Guess what. I don't want this attention! I wanted to be in Soulforged, to work things out with my wife, to deal with my depression, and even more important then all of this shit! THIS IS A GAME..

I want and I WILL have a successful life. No matter how spoiled you believe me to be, YOU !! YOU ARE THE ONE LIVING OFF OF YOUR PARENTS!
GET A JOB! GO TO COLLEGE! JOIN THE MILITARY! DO SOMETHING WITH YOUR LIFE INSTEAD OF LEADING RAIDS YOU DUMB SHIT OMG!

I may need drugs. I may be depressive. I may have something wrong with my emotions and my head. But I go to work with pride every single day.

I wanted to be in Soulforged and progress to the end game content, be a RPer thats highend. Thats what I've wanted out of this game. But I'm not going to sell my soul, aka, be in a guild where the guild leader is having sex, IRL sex, with my wife to do it. No matter how horrible of a husband I have been, I did not diserve that to happen..

I don't want attention like this. I am doing this for one reason and one reason alone, and you have already said it.

I will deface you. Everyone will know what kind of a boy you are. I'm here to speak the truth. I don't need to do this to get attention. I lead a guild on Venekor, I get plenty of attention there. I get plenty of attention Roleplaying. You want to label everything I do for attention.. no.
I'm doing this to bring you down, without causing you physical harm or breaking the law. I'm doing this so people will know you are garbage.

So, that's that. If this is going to be an issue for anyone, by all means, I do understand. However, I don't really see why any of this has to interfere with raiding much at all. Shin can actually be sued right now for what he's doing. But that's the story, of which I'm sure Shin will try to show in a different light or just point out how he was wronged over and over if asked. *shrug* It's up to you what you want to believe.

Then sue me, bitch. I'm not afraid of your Lawyers. Its only money, and unlike you I earn more of it as I continue forward. Its called a paycheck, son. Get one. Need some to pay for your next EQ bill?

If you want to talk to him, by all means, feel free. I don't hate the guy. He -needs- meds he's not on. But I don't plan to every say as a guild you can't talk to someone.

I do not know where you are getting that I am not taking my meds. I forget a day here and there but I am on my medication, and it has helped me greatly. Not once have I throught about killing myself. You know, Lithium is that stuff they put in batteries. You make this statement because you know you cannot force people nto to talk to me, BTW, much like I cannot force Jen to not love you.

So, there's the story. I know I'm not innocent by any means, no party is. Just giving folks a little to think over and sort've realize it's more than just what he's claiming. There's a background of around 6-7 years of a relationship between Jen and he before anything happened.

We've all fucked up. Stop trying to make yourself seem cleaner then the rest of us.

Judge me as you wish. But I am here to bring out the truth in him. and I don't care how much he will try to sue me for, the boy can't keep a job, and quit the only job he had because it was hard. Who's really spoiled, fucker?

Eat a dick, *****.

stryph · 11-12-2007, 02:05 PM

wow....

LFG · 11-12-2007, 02:05 PM

This is some quality shit, but needs to be moved to Rate a Retard rather than the general information forum.

But lemme get one thing straight.

You're saying this guy poked your wife, and you're telling the world that?