Hi everyone,
I'm new to eq so please humor me with elementary answers

I have been reading the forums including (mostly) the monk since that is the character I decided to play, and have some really basic (ok, maybe dumb) questions that I can't find answers I can understand.
This first question is embarassing to ask because everything I've read tells me that any idiot should know what combat art and auto attack is. I've read a bunch about timing Combat Arts against Auto attacks but not sure what they are talking about. What am I timeing? How do i do a CA? how do I do the auto attacks? How do I know if I'm autoattacking or combat art attacking? As much info in very simple terms is needed as this seems to be a very important subject.
Another question, I keep reading about dev fist, dispatch and rescue but don't find anything in current monk spells or those I get at later lvl's that relate to those titles?
Finally, haste seems to be very important to monks, how do I increase my haste, is it just watching for armor to drop that have haste things on them.
I probably need to be a higher lvl to use some of the CA and Autoatacks and stuff but I need to understand now so I can develop my monk correctly from the ground up. Plus it would just be nice to be reading something I could understand.