There is a "balance" you have to achieve with the +stats as in taking them but not giving up too much. as Woz said.
I can take some of my gear (don't laugh, it tough starting out a new main) curreantly I'm using
Awakened Scalelord Gauntlets as I found they give pretty decent avoid but they are pretty much on my first list to upgrade... if you want avoidance... sometimes +AGI will help you as much... I can hotswap a bow in with 20 AGI and currantly in my setup my avoid won't change from a
+2def/+2parry symbol. simply b/c that has no AGI upon it.
Once you get to the stage where defence items and parry items start hit hard in deminishing returns its time to look into getting +Slashing and pure health
That said the best way to increase your advoid is with 5 fabled adorns
+1 % block chance (shield)
+2% parry chance x 2 (actually 1.9% @ 70), wrists
+7 Parry (Forearms)
+2% riposte/parry (slashing weapon)
A Pally uses all stats... so bare this in mind
