Sir, if you do dps better than a sk with same group/ same gear, I'm very sorry to say that your SK friend sucks.
SKs dps more than us pallies. Fact.
Don't get me wrong about aggro control on multitarget encounter, any non-retarded paladin can keep aggro with no sweat, whatever the number of mobs. Was just saying that some SK skills are just amazingly OP for multitarget aggro (Grave Sacrament + Deathmarch is a very impressive aggro combination). Let's say both classes are equal.
For the monk, ok...I admit...I wrote that with a monk friend reading my post right behind me
About survavibility, I'd like you to explain a bit more about it. Do you mean no, SKs have more survavibilty than us? Or no, we do own them? In either case, I'd like to know why

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