The Truth about everything (Zhouyu from Vox) - Page 17

Bonavox · 01-31-2008, 08:14 PM

Gromann: that's a pretty good synopsis of it.

Kaly: <3 and *hugs*

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Originally Posted by ZhouyuTheGreat

Well for the Xova's version read the thread.

I'm being as honest as it can be.

Bullshit.

- me and xova were dating online, which she wantign drag to rl i didn't because i told her age difference was the issue, while that was just a nicer way of saying im not attracted to you irl nor how you look.

We dated for over two years. A year ago when we broke up - over another girl incidentally - you begged me back saying you wanted to meet, etc. I fell for it, and after about 6 months realized you were full of shit and gave up on meeting. Since then and up until a couple of nights ago, you had been asking me to fly to see you in Toronto for what would basically amount to one expensive booty call.

- after a series of unhappy months we decided have a non-exclusive relationship. Which meant ..we could be friends and go our seperate ways pretty much.

No. You cheated on me around Thanksgiving. I caught you at it, confronted you, and you admitted it. Afterwards I agreed to an open relationship in terms of SL, but elsewhere we were to be exclusive, on the condition that you stop seeing the girl you cheated on me with. You agreed, lying so at the time, and kept seeing her. That broke the deal and so I moved on with someone else and told you it was over. You couldn't grasp that concept and kept insisting we be involved as a couple.

- then she found someone, i found someone. She claims i cheated, i dont know you can cheat in a non-exclusive relationship its beyond me but whatever.

Our "arrangement" didn't come into being until AFTER I discovered you cheating on me as I stated above and it was conditional upon us being exclusive elsewhere (your terms) and you not seeing the girl you cheated on me with (my terms), which you agreed to do. Only you lied, and I knew you lied, so that broke the deal.

- she wanted me to dump my new girlfriend and go back to her, the answer was no, i told her we couldstill be friends, but i hadn o intentions for an exclusive relationship anymore, (not with her ) that set her off.

I wanted to dump you the moment I found out about your cheating but you begged me not to. I should have gone with my gut instinct. You wanted us to be a couple in an open relationship. I wanted to just be friends and leave the romantic relationships to SL and keep them out of our gaming. You have repeatedly said to me, and yes there is proof, that you did not want an exclusive relationship, that you just liked screwing around, that it was all just casual, and said it in direct reference to Leilana, citing the fact that she has a RL husband, that she is older, and that it is all just casual as reasons for not being serious about each other.

- the woman goes ballastic, takes all the toons i have including my overseer SK and puts them all on SE for auction. then runs off to eq2flames to drag it public out of desperation.

The two toons I initially sold were mine to do with as I pleased - something we had agreed on months ago as I bought them in the first place. I put them up for sale in response to you getting upset over me spending time with my new love interest over you, and you going to him and spouting a bunch of lies (which you later admitted to me in chat were lies and apologized) in attempt to break us up. After that incident, I realized it was time to just cut my losses, and so I got rid of the toons that were keeping us tied together. Your SK I was not going to sell and I gave you the account info for it last night so you could deal with it as you wished, and you got upset at me since I wasn't transferring it back to you via the SE like you wanted, and eventually told me to just sell it as it was useless to you (again, said in text, so I can back it up.)

- ofcourse putting on a one sided story and playing the "im a girl feel sorry for me" card.

That's a matter of perception.

my fault in all of this ? i wanted out, despite all the good and the bad, i wanted out. Because were't good as a exclusive couple. We both had and needed different things but we had a good friendship and we tried to save that as much as we could. However he demands were that i break up with my girlfriend to be her "friend" while she still would go around seeing the same she has been seeing druing all this. Her reason ? "just because".

There now you have it.

Comments in red above are mine.

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Originally Posted by ZhouyuTheGreat

Well it depends which version you want ? You want my version ? or Xova's feel sorry for me im a girl version ?

I'm just getting warmed up right now because if there is one person who knows there is nobody who could run show like i can and this is about to get ALOT more intresting if Xova doesn't back down!

Sands.

Post whatever you like. I can do the same when I get home, and while it might not embarass you with your peers here, it will embarass you with the one person you are desperately trying to impress. We did not break up three months ago. This all began after Thanksgiving, and shortly thereafter I moved on with someone else and you couldn't handle it. I kept in contact with you because I valued our relationship still, valued you as a person, and geniunely cared about you. It's been about 2 months' worth of dragging it out, and I am just DONE with it.

I don't want you back, ok? I didn't want you back yesterday, nor the day before that, nor the day/week/whatever before that. And I will not want you back. Ever. I don't care if you and Leilana fuck/cyber/meet/date/marry/partner/whatever. Had I wanted to interfere in that relationship I could have contacted her weeks ago when you told me her name. But I didn't. I left it alone, asked you to just not talk to me about her, and only got upset when you would insist on bringing her up to me because - hello! - you cheated on me with her and I still felt wronged by the whole thing.

I would be perfectly happy not to have to see/hear/deal with you or her ever again. You are a toxic person - a selfish, egotistical, insecure, manic-depressive, abusive person who constantly feels a need to brag to make up for his deficiencies. I regret that I wasted 2+ years of my life on you when I could have been happier with someone else. And yes - it was a WASTE. I take nothing positive from the experience of being your girlfriend/whatever, especially after now.

Incidentally you were trying to claim that I logged onto your accounts using the "remember password" option, and then simultaneously trying to claim I knew your account info since I knew your eq2 info. Which is it? Because the "remember password" feature is only saved to the local machine - not the program itself - so I would have had to know your passwords to begin with in order to enable it, which if I knew your passwords I wouldn't have needed the "remember" feature. The mind boggles.

Just stop already. If Leilana and everyone else can't see by now what a complete pathological liar you are then they need their heads checked. I guess only two people here know the absolute truth of all this - you and I. And if you can live with that knowledge and still claim the things you do, then it only solidifies my decision to cut my losses and get the hell out of Dodge.

I'm beyond done with this drama so time to take the ball and go home. Don't contact me after this. Don't call me. Don't ask people to get in touch with me. Just stay away, ok? I don't think I can be any more clear than that.

ZhouyuTheGreat · 01-31-2008, 08:15 PM

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Originally Posted by Tethias

Zhouyu, she already admitted to being deceptive. We are, as a species, by nature deceptive. Owning up to it is a different story here.

Absolutely. When it comes to someone you have been for 2 years, despite how bad our relationship was ...i rusted her asa good friend. That is exactly why, even after all this, i still thought she had good in her, that she had some dignity and was just acting out of jealousy, i trustd her, i let her take my share of the toons, all for one thing, to give me my sk back.

Ofcourse she didn't. She claims to have moved on and that she is happy, but she brought all this public (check the other threads) for someone who is supposedly happy and wants to have nothing to do with me, she sure as hell has a hard time moving on, considering the 28th and the messages she has been sending them on my phone and in games.

All im saying is, just because a relationship came to an end, that does not, give you or anyone else the right to steal, ...it doesn't.

Tethias · 01-31-2008, 08:16 PM

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Incidentally you were trying to claim that I logged onto your accounts using the "remember password" option, and then simultaneously trying to claim I knew your account info since I knew your eq2 info. Which is it? Because the "remember password" feature is only saved to the local machine - not the program itself - so I would have had to know your passwords to begin with in order to enable it, which if I knew your passwords I wouldn't have needed the "remember" feature. The mind boggles.

LOL

Path · 01-31-2008, 08:17 PM

Fuck sakes Z we've said it 5 times already, you're dumb fucking non-english speaking ass can't comprehend, so I'm gonna translate it into spanish for you're stupid ass.

el amor le hace estúpido usted jodiendo imbécil

(Thanks goes to an online translation)

Got that?
Love makes you stupid you fucking moron. She said that to TRY and help you but you kept up your dickery doo dah bullshit and she got tired of it, brought up the REAL facts and that's when you got more pissed off.

LordQuicksilver · 01-31-2008, 08:17 PM

Ok OK ......... What did i miss

ZhouyuTheGreat · 01-31-2008, 08:18 PM

Hey Xova insted of writting novels and keep cutting around the bush. Tell me ..if you want to have nothing to do with me ...then why go thru all this ? why bring it public ? why steal ? don't write a novel about it all ....just answer the questions. why ? what did i do, to give you the right to do this ? and if it is YOU who didn't and doesn't want me back than why do i have those messages on my phone ? If YOU are the one who doesn't want me back why even bother bringing all this public ?
Because you are desperate, because you are jealous, because you just can't see the fact that i have moved on.

Really, stop writting novels and cut aroudn the bushes and avoid questions, answer them directly.

Tethias · 01-31-2008, 08:21 PM

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Originally Posted by LordQuicksilver

Ok OK ......... What did i miss

My new sig pretty much sums it up

ZhouyuTheGreat · 01-31-2008, 08:22 PM

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Originally Posted by Path

Fuck sakes Z we've said it 5 times already, you're dumb fucking non-english speaking ass can't comprehend, so I'm gonna translate it into spanish for you're stupid ass.

el amor le hace estúpido usted jodiendo imbécil

(Thanks goes to an online translation)

Got that?
Love makes you stupid you fucking moron. She said that to TRY and help you but you kept up your dickery doo dah bullshit and she got tired of it, brought up the REAL facts and that's when you got more pissed off.

No one, no person with integrity, with dignity, with understanding and mentally normal would ever put something on her son's life if its a lie. specially xova, specially her ... has nothing to do with "love" ....if her "love" can bring out this dishusting person out of her ...then what exactly is love ? Can you blame me for wanting out ? really ...

Path · 01-31-2008, 08:23 PM

AHHHHHHHHHH Z YOU'RE FUCKING DIARREAH CUNT BAG SHE'S SAID IT 4329762398756Q2937856293485 FUCKING TIMES

God dammit now this is pissing me off. Someone post fucking proof of text messages/logs/Screenshots NOW.

If we're gonna do this, do it right, and slam the book in their face or some shit.

ZhouyuTheGreat · 01-31-2008, 08:23 PM

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Originally Posted by Tethias

My new sig pretty much sums it up

I can give you a better quote ! Here try this one :

"I have got it all, looks, power, money, intelligence, success, all put in a body topped with a gooooorrrrgeeeous waist i am the real deal. I am what every man wish they could be like and every woman wish they could be with"

*wink*