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Character: Zhaoyun
Guild: The Oda Clan
Server: Vox
Posts: 190
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The Truth about everything (from Vox)
(out of character)
Well I'm sure you guys will get a kick out of this, specially you Bigguss. However i didn't want to bring any of this up, but I saw Margaret's post well, it seems she likes things to go public.
A long time i learned a lesson, that is that in communities mostly dominated by male population, in an event that there is a cinflict between a male and a female, the female is always right to the eyes of the community. I know that all too well, which is why i left it alone until now. This post is not made with intention to make a distinction between "right and wrong" or point fingers at whos fault it is or anything like that. There is a another side to each story what you wish to believe out of it all is up to you.
First question, did I farm ? titles ? no, the titles were earned legit. Gear ? Yeh i farmed my gear. I didn't see farming gear any more cheap than standing at WW cloud staiton ganking people as they fly in, then jumping off and plug pulling like shook does (and admits to). I got caught, and reported, toon got the gear stripped. (not the title, he is still a overseer ) Tari also was farming her gear too.
Well we transffered the toon over to an account owned by Tari, to get a name change and let the situation die out for a while, i had left eq2 by that time. However I talked to a few people from Nemises on msn, specially Fionali, she told me nemises needed a tank, and i was intrested, i love tanking. Well i needed to buy a tank of statio nexchange, which u cant, since im canadian. So Tari had to do it.
Previously i wanted an Assasin (Tanzo) i sent margaret $200 over paypall to buy the toon for me, auction ended up with about $320 or something, so she paid the difference. After playing the toon for a little, i decided i didn't want it, so i said just sell the toon, and make up our money, i said if i lost a little money over it, it doesn't matter as long as she got her money back. Well she said no, she wanted to keep the toon cause of its crafting profession, i said ok.
Well now that we needed to buy a tank, she said since she had $200 from me, we put it towards a tank. Which we shared and it was o na shared account with the assasin and such. We were suppsoe to transfer luxun back to my account after a while and get a name change ( i honestly hated luxun the name i dont even know why i picked, he was never suppose to become a main character anyway) So it worked out fine.
However things with us personally went wrong, honestly, is Tari a good person ? yes she is, she isa caring, loving person, did we as a couple click ? Somewhat yes and somewhat no. Try putting yourself in shoes of a guy who has girls hitting on him on daily bases, 90% of females on Vox had hit on me at one point, everytime i go out they hit on me. It was always clear with us that rl was seperate, but she wouldn't accept that. I kept hearing women tell me "you can do soo much better" and things along those lines. Anyway, things we us, had snow balled into something long term anyway, had it not been for the guild, we would have break up a long time ago. in 2005 we tried it, i went up to her and said i wanted out, she made a whole fizzy fuss , dragged drama into the guild, and played the whole "im a girl feel sorry for me" card. When we reformed oda, i didn't wanna risk that, i was frustrated, but i couldn't break up with hr for obvious reasons. (atleast she couldn't bother me irl) but anyhow it finally got to a point where i was bored with the game AND her ....so i just went out. Left....
She went ballistic when she found out i was with other women both irl and online and put my zerker up for sale, now i would have owned half of the toon,. more than half actually, $200 of it. though she took it for herself anyway because of all the money she spent as "gifts" on me, even though i would always say dont do it. I said whatever fine, i dont care about the money, but then she told me she wouldn't give me Luxun back either. So i told her she can sell all the toons, take everything for herself, just transfer luxun back to my account like we had agreed to. Well she said that was fine.
Today, once she was done selling all her toons, and emptied the account, she threw luxun in my face, and refuses to transfer him over to my account. Which is useless to me ....well ...she says its for me "screwing her over". Well i dont see how i screwed her aside form wanting out of a relationship. Is it a crime ????
Oh well, she is playing the "im a girl feel sorry for me" card with you all, and im someone who people love to hate. I don't really care who side people take, but this is the truth.
As far as Luxun goes, there is nothing i can do, she might as well sell him and buy a couple of toys for her son, she does have the cutest son in the world though despite everything else !
And no Bigguss, i was nither dumped, nor am i singe now, nither online nor irl. Sorry to shatter your dreams. As much as Xova likes to say she has "moved on" and that she is "happy" ....she still felt the need to constantly make up lies and bring the personal stuff to the boards. Well ...im happy, i have found someone who i can be happy with, who i actually can see as someone to be a "girlfriend" for a long time. Nothing more i can wish for.
Goodluck with everything, Luxun is a game character, it comes and goes, i have quit eq2 anyway, there are more important things in life.
(back in character )
As you folks see, a man like me can never be alone, all the ladies drool over my goooorggggeeeous waist 24/7, so i suggest you all either hit the road or get in line for my autograph. Because i am still the very best pvper EQ2 has ever had and that is my friends a FACT you need to live with.
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