We aren't as bad as we are cracked up to be.
I think
most of our troubles arise from PoS SK's (or ignorant people that lack SK class knowledge) giving us a bad rep, which then undoubtebly sends word to the raiding core along the lines of "SK's suck, why would we want one." I've learned that most of those fucktards go with the general concept then, than looking into what we can actually add to a raidforce.
The truth of it in my opinion, and experience, is that I've done anything just as effectively as any guard I've grouped or raided with. I just think its a lot more work from the player-side as an SK.
Take Dogmae for example - I'd like him to chime in actually... How would you say he fares compared to the other 200 or so raiding guardians in EQ2 serverwide? I bet he could out tank 85-95% of the hardcore raiding Guards? Maybe I'm off a bit - but I bet its close.
Can I do as well as a VP geared Guardian from Confirmed? Hell no... not at this time at least. I will say that if I raided with them 7 nights a week though, that very soon I could easily tank VP as an SK. Sad thing is that its harder to get into a guild like that as an SK, as it is to take my own guild to VP.
Do I spend most of my time tanking? No, only when our guard is sick or something. Hell I just tanked PR and all but the OK in Kor-Sha the other night without any problems... with 3 groups nonetheless.
Its quite obvious that this expansion is in no way favorable for a SK, but its still liveable. I still get tells from random friends asking me to come tank this and that for them, because their guardian sucks and is losing agro.
I've tanked all the dominus (x4 mind you) with 2 healers in our 7 man raid. Last night I tanked chelsith with 0 healers, 2 assasins, and a brigand - the retarded healer left after the first worm because I didnt want to use my shield

- looks to me like its the healer that sucked.
Now ask some guardians if they think they can pull either of those off.
If you cant cut it, I guess leaving is the only option at the moment. We will be back on top again sometime or another. All its going to take is some more diverse content that mixes single/AE targets more effectively, and walla, we have our niche again. But for now I'll just enjoy my three nights a week raiding, and see what happens in the future.